Life in a village to many people is all hard work and no
joy. Village is where we consider the uneducated and rustic people live covered
in grime and filth with little or nothing in life. Yes, uneducated they may be
and they might not have all the junks of modernity in their lives if we are to measure
village life by these irrelevant yardsticks. Look deeper and there lies the real
beauty and vibrancy of a village life that are far too overwhelming than the so
called educational qualifications and material possessions that most people in
certain bracket are so obsessed with.
Change is inevitable and it is slowly taking place even
in the villages but, something can never change that soon and that is the shared
communal responsibilities and belongingness, be it in times of joy or despair, in
fun and frolic or in tears and heartbreaks.
Conditions and situations change in the village from time
to time but, what remains is the solidarity among the village folks that still
remain as strong as ever.
At this time of the year, villages are in the thick of
farming works. It is around this time that farmers, especially women are busy
weeding maize. Young women and girls can be seen in groups working in maize
fields taking turns to work in each other’s field every day. The sun may be
harsh one day. The next day rain could be relentless and the days may be long
but, fields in the villages can always be seen filled with women with kiras
held high above their knees. While they work, their backs bent they can always
be found discussing issues ranging from politics and current affairs to even
raunchy jokes that evoke a barrage of high pitched laughter and giggles
intermittently oblivious to beads of perspiration oozing relentlessly from
every pores of their bodies.
This time round, their talk ranged from the recent salary
raise and how it favoured people at the top when the talk all along was to make
the most for those who earn the least. They even share their concerns of who
would be looking after their well beings when the people who have all the say
are too concerned with their well beings alone. They then talk of what led to
the recent suicide of a young policewoman from the village and they have all
sorts of hypothesis as to what could have driven the girl to take her own life.
When the women are in group, they hardly care whether
anyone is around who can overhear their conversation. It is often talk about
men that they find it fun sharing. It can be about a young man following a
young woman or a personal and private affair of a young couple that has leaked and
may be going around like a bush fire among the women folk that they find fun
talking about. Often, after a frenzied chattering someone from the group can be
heard bursting out aloud, “Ha Hao...” And the other follow with a flurry of
laughter, waves after waves.
Few minutes later there would be another bout of-“Ha
Haoo…” and another blitz of laughter reverberates around the lush green maize
fields. And at other times, they would be singing together in unison burying
the clanking of spades and stones with laughter and songs.
No matter, how hard the day’s work may be, they enjoy
working together and burying their difficulties and hardships underneath these
joys. At the end of the day’s hard work, they sit around for a drink of local
beer and salad before dinner. And another round of strong local brew, coloured
red with sandalwood and heated in butter and eggs is normally served at the end
to wash the food.
It is not surprising for these young women to sometimes
dance for few more hours before they head home, mentally on a high note,
although, their bodies go limp for the day. For them, the few hours of sleep is
what they get to revitalize their body for another day of work that awaits them
the next day.
I can only admire them and salute them for making life so
beautiful. I think this is bliss!!!
Gyembo Namgyal
August 12, 2014
It was wonderful thoughts sharing la...keep it up
ReplyDeletethanks la
DeleteBut i can only admire u and salute u for ur work....great!!! Keep writing................
ReplyDeletethank you tashi for your kind words. have a good time and keep well.
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